You meeting with a lady is a very serious step for both of you!
We want to advice you to go to her country by yourself, because it will be more stable for you. you have to understand that internet is a very interesting place, where everything can happen, that is why you have to be very attentive during your communication with girls. If someone will ask some help from you or money, you don’t have to believe in that, because it can be a scammer, so, don’t send money to any of the women. If you don’t have a chance to leave your own country, than you can buy tickets to her and make her trip more comfortable, this is the real way to see her, but never send money in the internet, it has to be your rule number.
We recommend you to stay in a hotel or some other place. You have to understand that you don’t know each other good enough to stay in her apartment for the first time. If you stay in the hotel you will be sure that everything alright and you will not feel yourself confused, as you don’t know if you like her and if she likes you during your communication in real life.
You have to be very attentive with your documents and passport, because everything can happen in the other country, there can be different situations abroad, so you have to be ready for everything, make some copies of your documents and bring it with you.
You have to express your attention to the woman, so you have to buy something for her and her children. It can be some kind of souvenir, it will make her smile and happy, that someone thinks about her and make s a decision to do such a present. It will show you from a very good side and after that she will appreciate this act a lot. Fot her children you can bring some candies or sweets, toys.